It’s that time of year again when exams are looming. It’s a period of stress and worry, especially if you feel you are at a significant cross roads in your life and so much depends on getting the right result.
Concentrating on revision is demanding and draining too and inevitably more difficult if, during these crucial times, you also have to cope with your horrid parent.
Loving families go all out to make whoever is taking their exams feel supported. Unfortunately a horrid parent can take advantage of the fact that you are under pressure and be even more critical. They might make nasty comments to undermine you too by saying how useless you are, compare you unfavourably with themselves, or your siblings. They can even ask why you bother at all as ‘no-one’ will give you a job.
If your exams also signal that you will soon leave home, they might also seize the opportunity to exert further control. They can threaten to stop your allowance until the exams are over, or ground you so you can’t go out, ignoring the fact that everyone needs some time off. So want can you do?